Making curd slurry

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1. In a bowl take the sour curd and whisk it well till smooth
2. Add gram flour, red chilli powder, turmeric powder, garam masala powder and salt to the whisked curd.
3. Stir and mix everything again.
4. Add 3 cups water and stir again.
5. Stir very well to make a smooth mixture without lumps. If there are lumps, then break them with a wired whisk or a spatula or with your fingers. Set the curd slurry aside.
6. You can use a blender to make this mixture, but make sure you don’t over do it. You will get butter instead of a smooth blended curd.

Making pakora for kadhi

1. Take the gram flour in a bowl and add carom seeds, red chili powder, garam masala powder and salt.
2. Add 1 cup thinly sliced onions.
3. Mix everything well and set aside covered for 30 minutes.
4. This will allow the onions to release their water in the mixture. Depending on the water content in the onions, the mixture will become very moist or just about moist.
5. Then accordingly add water as required to make a thick batter. I added ¼ cup water.
6. Heat oil for deep frying in a pan or kadai. Let the oil become medium hot. Then with a spoon carefully drop the pakora batter in the oil.
7. When the pakora are partly cooked, then turn over and fry the other side.
8. Fry till the pakora are crisp and golden.
9. Remove the fried pakora and place them on a kitchen paper towel so that extra oil is absorbed. Fry the pakora in batches this way. When done set all of them aside.

Making kadhi

1. In another pan or kadai, heat mustard oil. Make sure to use a large bottomed pot so that while boiling, the kadhi does not spill.
2. Add the cumin seeds, fenugreek seeds and asafoetida. Allow the cumin seeds to crackle and the fenugreek seeds to change their color. Fry on a low flame, so that these spices do not get burnt.
3. Add chopped onions. Stir and sauté for 3 minutes on a low to medium-low heat.
4. Then add chopped ginger, chopped garlic and chopped green chillies. Stir and sauté for a minute.
5. Now add curry leaves, dry red chilies (halved or broken and seeds removed). Stir and sauté for a minute on a low flame.
6. Then add the curd slurry.
7. Stir very well.
8. Increase the flame to medium and bring the kadhi to a boil. Keep on stirring often so that the bottom does not get browned. Time taken to cook kadhi will be around 14 to 16 minutes.
9. After the kadhi has come to a boil, then lower the heat and simmer for more 6 to 7 minutes. The kadhi will thicken. 
10. If the kadhi becomes too thick, then add some hot water.

Making kadhi pakora

1. Now add the onion pakora to the kadhi and stir gently.
2. Cover with a lid and let the onion pakora be soaked in it for 8 to 10 minutes.
3. Lastly sprinkle some garam masala powder.
4. Serve kadhi pakora with steamed rice or cumin rice, topped with few teaspoonfuls of ghee. You could also have kadhi with roti or paratha.